obey    kugamburuka, kugendanira, kwītōndera, kwūmvira, kugandūkira
(unwillingly) kugambarara
(to force to) kugandūra
(to refuse to) kugaranya
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love    (to ~) gukūnda, kugomwa
(to cause to ~) gukūndīsha
(deeply and obey) kunogēra
(~ each other) kunogerana, gukūndana
(turn against one you've loved) gucāna
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force    (to) kugōbēra, guhadikiriza, kuzingirikira
(someone to do something against his will) guhāta
(to obey) kugandūra
(to lose original ~) gutītūra
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kugambarara (-gambaraye)     v    1. to complain, 2. be disobedient, 3. obey unwillingly
kugendanira (-gendaniye)     v    1. to follow, 2. accompany, 3. obey (a chief or superior)
kugamburuka (-gamburutse)     v    to obey
refuse    kwānka, kugāmbāna, guhakana, kunana
(absolutely) guta agati, kuziririza
(esp. girl to marry a certain man) kubēnga
(strongly) gukankamira
(to acknowledge one's wrong) kudadarara
(to eat) kuzira
(to eat or drink with) kunēna
(to eat what you've always eaten) guhura
(to give) kwīma
(to give to another) kwīmana
(to give another his own) kugūnga
(to go on helping someone) guhasha
(to listen, almost as crazy) gutaragurika
(to listen to authority) kugarariza
(to obey) kugaranya
(to repay loan) guheranira
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kwūmvīra (-ūmvīye)   v    to obey
kugaranya (-garanije)     v    to refuse to obey
unwillingly    (to do) kugoyagoya
(to obey) kugambarara
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kugandūra (-gandūye)     v    1. to subjugate, subdue a revolt, 2. to force to obey, 3. to tame
kunogēra (-nogēye)     v    1. to love deeply and obey, 2. to persist
kwītōndera (-ītōndeye)     v    1. to obey, keep (law), 2. to take pains with, 3. apply oneself to, 3. to pay attention
disobey    kugambarara, kugāba, kwānkika
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 obey found in: Kirundi I (Study lessons)
lesson 121   More Miscellaneous Expressions
 obey found in: Kirundi II (Grammar)
chapter 54   Comparisons