formerly    mbere
En-En dictionary 
mbere     prep    1. in fact, 2. before, formerly
kuryārukana (-ryārukanye)     v    to abuse one you formerly loved
(amagara yandyarutse – my strength has left me)
abuse    (to ~ verbally) gushinyagurira
(one formerly loved) kuryārukana
En-En dictionary 
kwīyuhagira (-īyuhagiye)     v    1. to bathe oneself (formerly a ceremonial cleansing, but now bathing in general), 2. to shower